Ms Sandy (not her real name) is working as an executive in the financial sector. She was married in 1998 to an IT professional. During her marriage period, the husband was stationed overseas and for most of the time they lived apart. They maintained their relationship by frequent phone conversations and short visits. Throughout this period, she looked after her husband's family members (a bed-ridden father-in-law, mother-in-law and 2 teenage siblings) while he paid for the family's expenses. As Sandy had to work long hours at work, she was physically and mentally strained by her work and family commitment. She had frequently requested the husband to get a posting back home or find a new job back home so that they could live together and shoulder the burden of looking after his family together. The husband was not keen to return and felt that she was naggy and always complaining. Her marriage came to an end in 2009 when she found out that her husband was having an affair. From a metaphysical prospective, can all these happenings be 'seen' from Ms Sandy's BaZi? To find out the answer, let us examine Ms Sandy's BaZi.
Ms Sandy's BaZi chart is shown below:
Ms Sandy's Day Master is Yin Water (shown in yellow colour). Her BaZi shows that there is a combination involving Goat (未), Pig (亥) and Rabbit (卯) but the combination does not lead to a transformation. Her BaZi belongs to a BaZi structure called Normal Strong Structure (正旺格). Her BaZi shows that the Day Master is strong.
For a Yin Water person, her spouse element is Earth. In her BaZi, she has 3 spouse elements (all Yin Earth elements) and the spouse elements are surrounding the self element. Her BaZi shows that her spouse element is strong. This indicates strong affinity with spouse or marriage. This also indicates that she is able to have new romance relationship after a failed relationship. The presence of strong spouse element explains why some people are able to have new romance relationship after each failed relationship; while others are not able to do so. Her BaZi also indicates that she has good human interpersonal relationship and can get along well with people.
The positioning of her spouse elements indicates that her spouse is the center of her life and is able to exert great influence on her. The Wood element (卯) which is positioned far away from the spouse elements in the Year Pillar indicates that she exerts little or no influence on her spouse (Wood controls Earth). Her BaZi shows that she has strong companion elements. This indicates that she is independent, has strong character and stubborn. This explains why she was able to manage her life, tolerated her husband working overseas throughout their marriage period and single-handedly shouldered the burden of looking after his whole family.
Luckily for Ms Sandy, her spouse element is a favourable element. This indicates that her husband is gentle and nice to her. Though her husband was physically away and did not share the work load of looking after his family, her husband did shoulder the financial burden of looking after his family.
Her BaZi shows that the Spouse Palace (shaded green) is involved in a combination (亥卯未). Although the combination does not lead to a transformation, the combination has caused the spouse element to have some Wood element (Rabbit 卯) attribute. The Wood element represents her output element. The presence of Wood element attribute in the Spouse Palace indicates that marriage will make her busy. This explains she was not only busy with her own career, she was also busy with the burden of looking after his whole family.
Her BaZi shows that the Spouse Palace is involved in a combination (亥卯未). This indicates that her marriage is unstable and the spouse has the affinity to 'stray' out of the marriage. This explains the fact that her husband had an affair.
Sandy's BaZi shows that she has strong spouse element which indicates strong affinity with spouse or marriage. This indicates that it is possible for her to remarry again if she wants to. Lets examine her luck cycle below:
Ms Sandy's luck cycle chart is shown below:
Her luck cycle shows that there are many periods of strong spouse luck. From 1984 (age 22) to 2023 (age 61), she is going through luck periods that indicate strong luck for romance relationship and marriage. Whether she will be in a romance relationship or get married will depend on her will and her actions to take advantage of the strong spouse luck in these periods. Based on her luck cycle, it is possible for Sandy to get into a new marriage after her failed marriage.
Analysis of marriage fate can reveal a number of things about a person's marriage. It can indicate whether there is affinity for a spouse. It can indicate whether the spouse will be helpful and good to you or will bring trouble to you. It can also indicate potential marriage problems like whether the marriage relationship will be harmonious and whether there are indications of straying out of the marriage. An analysis of marriage fate can help you to understand your marriage better and help you to have better awareness and tolerance when dealing with marriage issues.