Good Wedding Date service

1. What is Good Wedding Date service?

   Good Wedding Date is a service that provides auspicious dates (吉日) and auspicious hours (吉時) for your ROM (registry of marriage), wedding and wedding customs such as the delivery of betrothal gifts (過大禮), the installation of bridal bed (安床), the fetching of bride to groom's house (新娘入門) and the tea ceremony (敬茶). Please see GoodWeddingDate Report.
   
   
   

2. Who can use this service?

   This service can be used by any couple who wants the auspicious dates and auspicious hours for their ROM, wedding and wedding customs. The use of this service is not restricted by race and religion.
   
   
   

3. Why marry on a good wedding date?

   A good wedding date is a day where the cosmic energies are auspicious and positive for marriage. Marrying on a good wedding date has the influence of auspicious cosmic energies. The influence of auspicious cosmic energies can bring good blessing and a good start to a marriage.
   
   If a marriage did not take place on a good wedding date, the influence of inauspicious cosmic energies can bring bad lucks such as loss of wealth, illness, injury, legal problem, etc.
   
   
   

4. Should all marriage activities be held on good wedding dates?

   All marriage activities, ROM (registry of marriage), wedding, wedding customs, etc. should be held on good wedding dates. Holding all your marriage activities on good wedding dates mean that all will have the influence of auspicious cosmic energies.
   
   
   

5. Some misconceptions about auspicious dates for marriage?

   Some of the misconceptions are:
   
   Misconception 1
   Any date that is symbolically nice (such as (8/8/2008, 9/9/2009 10/10/2010, etc) is an auspicious date for marriage.
   
   This is a misconception because whether a date is an auspicious date for marriage depends on the cosmic energies of that date. If the cosmic energies are auspicious and positive for marriage, the date is an auspicious date for marriage. If the cosmic energies are not auspicious and positive for marriage, the date is not an auspicious date for marriage.
   
   
   Misconception 2
   A date that does not clash with your Chinese zodiac sign is suitable for marriage.
   
   This is a misconception because a date that does not clash with your Chinese zodiac sign can be bad for marriage if the cosmic energies for that date are not auspicious and positive for marriage.
   
   
   Misconception 3
   Bazi alone can tell whether a date is good for marriage.
   
   This is a misconception because bazi cannot tell whether a date has the cosmic energies which are auspicious and positive for marriage.
   
   
   Misconception 4
   An auspicious date for marriage cannot appear in a month (e.g. the Lunar 7th month or the Hungry Ghost month) that is considered taboo for marriage.
   
   This is a misconception because auspicious dates for marriage can appear in any month of the year as long as the cosmic energies of the date are auspicious and positive for marriage.
   
   The guiding principle is to pick auspicious dates which you are comfortable with and avoid those auspicious dates which you considered taboo for marriage in your custom.
   
   
   

6. Why you should not use Tong Shu auspicious dates?

   A couple should not use Tong Shu auspicious dates for the following reasons:
   
   (1) Tong Shu auspicious dates do not take into account a couple's dates and times of birth. As a result, the Tong Shu auspicious dates may not be good for the couple. Using Tong Shu auspicious date runs the risk of marrying on a day that is not good for the groom and bride.
   
   (2) Tong Shu auspicious dates may not be that auspicious. Tong Shu auspicious dates may have the presence of inauspicious Stars. This makes a Tong Shu auspicious date not a good date for marriage.
   
   
   

7. How do our good wedding dates compare with Tong Shu auspicious dates?
   

   There are many Tong Shu books in the market. Different Tong Shu may give different auspicious dates for marriage.
   
   Below is a comparison of our good wedding dates with Tong Shu auspicious dates.
   
   

   Tong Shu	GoodWeddingDate
   Tong Shu auspicious dates may have the presence of inauspicious Stars. This affects the quality of Tong Shu auspicious dates.	We filter out many inauspicious Stars for our good wedding dates.
   Tong Shu auspicious dates may have the presence of personal bad marriage Stars. This affects the quality of Tong Shu auspicious dates.	We filter out your personal bad marriage Stars for our good wedding dates.
   Tong Shu auspicious dates may fall on breaker days. This affects the quality of Tong Shu auspicious dates.	We filter out all types of breaker day for our good wedding dates.
   Tong Shu auspicious dates may not be compatible with the dates and times of birth of the groom and bride. This means that Tong Shu auspicious dates may not be suitable for the groom and bride.	Our good wedding dates are compatible with the dates and times of birth of the groom and bride.
   Tong Shu auspicious dates are only for the current year.	Our good wedding dates can be for any year in the future.

   
   
   
   

8. What will you get when you sign up for this service?

   When you sign up for this service, you will receive a GoodWeddingDate Report in PDF file.
   
   The report gives a list of your good wedding dates and auspicious hours in your choice of any 2 years. You can use the dates and hours to register your marriage, hold your wedding and carry out your wedding customs such as the delivery of betrothal gifts (過大禮), the fetching of bride to groom's house (新娘入門) and the tea ceremony (敬茶).
   
   The report also gives a list of your An Chuan dates and auspicious hours in your choice of the 2 years. You can use the dates and hours to install the bridal bed (安床).
   
   If parents birth data were provided, the report would highlight the good wedding dates in pink, which are good for your parents, that you can use for tea ceremony (敬茶).
   
   
   

9. How to use the dates and hours in the report?

   Using a good wedding date and an auspicious hour for a marriage activity will get the support of the auspicious cosmic energies of the day and hour.
   
   Registry of Marriage (ROM)
   Always use a good wedding date and an auspicious hour for your ROM. Always complete your ROM within the period of the auspicious hour.
   
   Delivery of Betrothal Gifts (過大禮)
   Always use a good wedding date and an auspicious hour for this wedding custom. Always complete this wedding custom within the period of the auspicious hour.
   
   Installing the Bridal Bed (安床)
   Always use an An Chuan date and an auspicious hour for this wedding custom. Always complete this wedding custom within the period of the auspicious hour.
   
   Fetching Bride to Groom's House (入門)
   Always use a good wedding date (pink colour date if parents' birth dates are provided) and an auspicious hour for this wedding custom. Always complete this wedding custom within the period of the auspicious hour. If one auspicious hour is not long enough, please choose a good wedding date (in pink) with two auspicious hours next to each other.
   
   Tea Ceremony (敬茶)
   Always use a good wedding date (pink colour date if parents' birth dates are provided) and an auspicious hour for this wedding custom. Always complete this wedding custom within the period of the auspicious hour. If one auspicious hour is not long enough, please choose a good wedding date (in pink) with two auspicious hours next to each other.
   
   Wedding Celebration/Feast
   Always have your wedding celebration/feast on a good wedding date.
   
   
   

10. What to do if a good wedding date does not have a suitable auspicious hour?

    If a desired good wedding date did not have a suitable auspicious hour, you might use any hour. Please note that ROM and wedding customs should always be carried out in an auspicious hour.
    
    
    

11. Is it necessary to provide parents' birth data for the service?

    Our Good Wedding Date service does not require parents' birth data. If you were to provide parents' birth data, we would highlight the good wedding dates in pink that are good for your parents which you can use for tea ceremony.
    
    When providing parents' birth data, only provide the birth data of living parents. Do not provide the birth data of deceased parents.
    
    
    

12. Why we can provide good wedding dates and auspicious hours beyond the current year?

    We do not use Tong Shu (通書) to identify the good wedding dates and auspicious hours.
    
    We use date selection techniques (The 12 Day Officers Method and Dong Gong Date Selection) to identify the good wedding dates and auspicious hours.
    
    Using date selection techniques allows us to identify good wedding dates and auspicious hours beyond the current year and for any year. It also allows us to ensure the quality of the good wedding dates. Our approach of identifying the good wedding dates is technically superior to the use of Tong Shu.
    
    
    

13. How do we identify the good wedding dates?

    We identify the good wedding dates using a computerized process. Our computerized process uses a 2-step process. In the first step, the process excludes all the bad dates from the 2 selected years. In the second step, the process identifies the good wedding dates using date selection techniques (The 12 Day Officers Method and Dong Gong Date Selection). If parents' birth data were provided, the process would further identify the good wedding dates that are good for the parents which you can use for tea ceremony.
    
    
    

14. How do we identify the auspicious hours?

    We identify the auspicious hours using a computerized process. Our computerized process uses a 2-step process. In the first step, the process excludes all the bad hours in each good wedding date. In the second step, the process identify the auspicious hours in each good wedding date.
    
    
    

15. How much does this service cost?

    We offer 2 GoodWeddingDate services. One for 2 selected years and one for 3 selected years. The 2 selected year service costs $68 (Singapore dollar). The 3 selected year service costs $88 (Singapore dollar).
    
    
    

16. Why choose GoodWeddingDate.com?

    Please read Why GoodWeddingDate.com.
    
    
    

17. How to pay for this service?

    You can pay for this service in 2 ways. You can pay using a credit card (Visa, MasterCard) or use a Paypal account. Both payment modes are handled by Paypal, a leader in free online payment service.
    
    For payment using a Paypal account, please make payment to goldenearth2009@gmail.com.
    
    
    

18. How to sign up for this service?

    Please visit Sign Up for Good Wedding Date service.
    
    
    

19. How soon will you receive your report after signing up?

    You will receive your report in 1 to 2 days after signing up with full payment.
    
    
    

20. Is your personal information safe with us?

    Our service is governed by our Privacy Policy. We will not share or reveal your information with any party. We take great care in guarding the safety of your information.