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Sep 4, 2010
Case Study: Marriage Fate Analysis - The failed marriage of a devoting wife
Background information
Ms Sandy (not her real name) is working
as an executive in the financial sector.
She was married in 1998 to an IT professional.
During her marriage period, the husband
was stationed overseas and for most
of the time they live apart. They
maintained their relationship by frequent
phone conversations and short visits.
Throughout this period, she looked
after her husband's family members
(a bed-ridden father-in-law, mother-in-law
and 2 teenage siblings) while he paid
for the family's expenses. As Sandy
had to work long hours at work, she
was physically and mentally strained
by her work and family commitment.
She had frequently requested the husband
to get a posting back home or find
a new job back home so that they could
live together and shoulder the burden
of looking after his family together.
The husband was not keen to return
and felt that she was naggy and always
complaining. Her marriage came to
an end in 2009 when she found out
that her husband was having an affair.
From a metaphysic prospective,
can all these happenings be 'seen'
from Ms Sandy's bazi? To find out
the answer, let us now examine Ms
Sandy's bazi.
Ms Sandy's bazi chart is shown
below:
The Analysis
Ms Sandy's self element is Yin
Water (shown in yellow colour).
The chart shows that the self element
is prosperous. To a Yin Water person,
her spouse element is Earth. In
the chart, she has 3 spouse elements
(all Yin Earth elements) and the
spouse elements are surrounding
the self element. The chart shows
that her spouse element is strong.
This indicates strong affinity with
men and she will get married. It
also indicates that she has good
human interpersonal relationship
and can get along well with people.
This also indicates that she is
able to have new romance relationship
after a failed relationship. The
presence of strong spouse fate explains
why some people are able to have
new relationship after each failed
relationship while others are not
able to do so.
The positioning of her spouse elements
indicated that her spouse is the
center of her life and is able to
exert great influence on her. On
the other hand, her Wood element
(¥f)
is positioned 'far away' in the
Year Pillar from the spouse elements.
This indicates that she exerts little
or no influence on her spouse (Wood
controls Earth). The chart shows
that she has strong companion elements
(3 Yin Water ¬Ñ¥è).
This indicates that she has strong
character, she is independent and
stubborn. This explains why she
was able to manage her life, tolerated
her husband working overseas throughout
their marriage period and shouldered
the 'burden' of looking after his
whole family.
Luckily for Ms Sandy, the spouse
element is her favourable element.
This indicates that her spouse was
nice to her and was able to take
care of the family. Though her husband
was physically away and did not
share the workload of looking after
the family, he was gentle and nice
towards her and helped shouldered
the financial burden of the family.
The chart shows that the spouse
element (Goat ¥¼)
is in the Spouse Palace (shaded
green). This shows that her favourable
element is in the Spouse Palace.
This indicates that her spouse will
be helpful to her.
Unfortunately, the Goat (¥¼)
element is involved in a combination
(¥è¥f¥¼).
Although the combination is not
successful, this, nevertheless,
indicates that her marriage is unstable
and the spouse has the affinity
to 'stray' out of the marriage.
This explains the fact that her
husband had an affair. The Spouse
Palace (Earth element) is in an
elemental clash with the Water element
(Pig) in the Month Branch. This
indicates that relationship with
spouse is not harmonious. It also
indicates that she and her husband
may spend less time together and
more time away from each other.
This explains the fact that her
husband was away for most of the
marriage period and given the long
separation, it is unlikely that
the marriage relationship would
be harmonious.
After analyzing Ms Sandy's bazi,
her 'suitable' spouse should be
someone whose bazi chart has only
one spouse element, the spouse element
is close to the self element, the
spouse element is a favourable element
and the spouse element should preferably
be positioned in the Spouse Palace.
Will Sandy marry
again?
Sandy's bazi shows that she has
strong spouse fate which indicates
strong affinity with men. This indicates
that it is possible for her to remarry
again if she wants to. Let examine
her luck cycle below:
Her luck cycle shows that there are
many periods of strong spouse luck.
From 1984 (age 22) to 2023 (age 61),
she is going through luck periods
that indicate strong luck for romance
relationship and marriage. Whether
she will be in a romance relationship
or get married will depend on her
will and her actions to take advantage
of the strong spouse luck in these
periods. Base on the luck cycle, it
is possible for Sandy to get into
a new romance relationship after her
failed marriage.
An analysis of a person's bazi
can reveal quite a number of things
about marriage fate. It can reveal
whether there is affinity for a
spouse. It can reveal whether the
spouse will be helpful and good
to you or will bring trouble to
you. It can also indicate potential
marriage problems like whether the
marriage relationship will be harmonious
and whether there are indications
of straying out of the marriage.
An analysis of bazi can help you
to understand yourself better in
terms of your marriage fate. Knowing
one's marriage fate better can help
you to make 'better choices' in
choosing a spouse. It can help you
to exercise better awareness and
tolerance in dealing with relationship
issues in a marriage.
At GoodWeddingDate.com, we provide
Marriage
Fate Analysis service. This
service analyzes your bazi and reveals
what bazi indicates about your marriage.
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